KGirl - one year later con't

[KGirl]

Thanks, Maybell That is a good idea and I will try it out as soon as I am done with my internet-ing for the evening.

Yes, the weddings in particular can be challenging at this point in time. I worry about some of the interactions I see with the two couples because I don't want them to end up in this situation someday. I'm especially concerned about my sister and her fiancé because she has told me things like "He says I'm really cranky all the time, I told him all women are cranky so he'll just have to deal with it" or "I asked him if we should be in separate places the night before the wedding and he said sure, he'll fly off to Africa and he'll see if I can find him in time... he's just joking though." ??? My sister regularly asks for my opinions on things like which shade of blue is the best shade and in my heading I'm screaming "Who the F cares?? You're getting married, just be grateful for that!" But, I put on a smile and say my opinion when I think it's appropriate (sometimes I think they just want validation so I don't always tell the truth if I don't really like an idea :S). One of my sister's bridesmaids is very pushy and wanted us to wear long dresses.. for an August 1 wedding. Luckily my sister didn't agree but did end up going with the bridesmaid dress that that girl liked best because all the rest were "juvenile" or "hideous", apparently. Maybe if she has so many opinions she can just do all the party planning