When I feel overwhelmed and under motivated, I set my timer for fifteen minutes, pick one thing, and do just that for fifteen minutes. If you really focus for that brief amount of time, you can get a LOT done. Then, while you're sacking out watching tv, you can get out a sheet of paper, divide it into sections based on all your big projects (divorce, shower, trip, taxes) and write tasks for each project on it. That will get you VERY organized and you're still just sitting around drinking wine and watching TV. Then you just set yourself fifteen minutes at a time and whittle away at the tasks. you can probably knock all of it out in 2-3 weeks in 15 minute chunks.
I'm sorry you're having so much dumped on you at once. Especially the wedding stuff -- that stings. Sending you a hug. And a big pointy-toed kick in the pants for your brilliant governor.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15