Hmm.. I guess I see both pros and cons to the email, depending on how comfortable you feel. For me, the in-person (or even phone) conversations were hard because I would start crying and it was very difficult to not ask a bunch of questions like "Why are you doing this? How can you not see that we can work this out?" etc. So if you think you can handle the in-person and that's what you want, I see no issue in asking for that. I mean he did say to let him know what you prefer, right? I don't necessarily see via email as not facing the issue, but rather a way to potentially deal with this in a less stressful way.. depending how you think you'll be affected by the in-person conversation.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final