damn, just typed a whole thing and it went into the ether... hate that.
so I gathered boat loads of docs. I was able to put my hands on a lot of information... just not the tax returns which are probably in stbx's trunk (that's where he "stores" important documents and by "stores" i means throws in on top of shoes, coloring books for D and empty coffee cups). If I contact the accountant for copies, stbx will find out so I'm holding off on that specific document for a second. I think i have enough information with account balances and activities since BD and S.
Breathing.
I am booking a flight to Phoenix in April for my Annual Photography Retreat which is just code for 16 women I've known for years from all over the country getting together for a weekend. It's awesome. Two of the ladies I'm booking flights with know about my sitch and have been pretty supportive. One lives in TN and the other east of San Diego so it's not like we see each other that often. I am so looking forward to that weekend. It really can't come soon enough.
But first... attorneys and chats with stbx. :sigh:
