Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

[susana4]

Thanks for the backstory, Complex. I understand better now!


It's not about the confrontation itself, more about that i don't know for how much longer I can/want to live in the limbo without her having ANY consequences whatsoever.
So what would 'not living in limbo' mean to you? Would it mean setting a boundary? Your wife moving out? Maybe you've already thought about this, but I think you need to be clear on that before you confront her - you need to know what you hope to gain from the confrontation.