I'm in much the same place as you at the moment; doing better personally but a ways to go. I'm glad you can be thankful for what you have.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014