Strong EA after 2yrs M - trying to detach. #3

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True. EAs do have a lot of meaning. Some even more than PAs.

I put 1+1 together. I "half snooped" her computer and found the article I mentioned (describing when or if a man is ready to commit, and one that described being ditched and stuff like that, focusing on yourself etc.) plus articles about volunteering abroad. She told me in a grumpy way she and OM aren't talking to each other at all anymore. And there's zero suspection on her schedule.
She also seems stressed about her future, not knowing what she wants to do with her life now.
Ok it's not knowing, but at this point I'd be very surprised. And I think I got an ok distant view on things right now.

Get more intel. I wouldn't do it every day but grab some at the end of each week in a period of time you have home alone.

She might be done with this OM, because she may have determined he was playing around with her and she doesn't like how it feels.

She obviously must've wanted to commit so she could jump over to that "branch"...

I can only get more Intel if I have a quiet moment (3-4 minutes) with her phone..which is rare. And only if she didn't start to encrypt her iphone backup, which is a possibility.
Other than that it's gonna get complicated.