What is the intel you have (if you want to share it here)? That might help us understand the decision better.
If a vet's suggesting you might want to confront then I think you should consider that strongly. I can't remember what you said your green card situation was? If you think it might jeopardise that you might want to make a plan to wait until that's sorted out (can't remember how far in the future it was), or you know it will be sorted out, until confronting your wife.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
