Thank you Ahoy and Starsky. I feel ashamed that i had not even considered this and honestly have mixed feelings as I don't want her to know it's me that tipped anyone off but I do want to ensure my kids are safe. I will call and see what can be done in this regard. I have not contacted a lawyer at all yet for fear that it signaled the end which is not what I want but I will see if I can consult with one to discuss this issue of her having someone stay the night when kids are there.
This input is what I need and frankly at the same time very hard for me to hear. I appreciate it.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time
