Originally Posted By: Karma12
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I will I think as him to meet me for coffee in a few weeks. I want to discuss SD, his paying me what he owes and filing for divorce.


May I ask what there is to discuss? I'm being sincere. Are there risks to informing him in advance? Why bother?

Are you hoping, deep down, that the "talk" will really be an attempt to "wake" him up?

As long as you truly have no expectations of him "changing!", is this a way to reduce legal fees?

What could he say to stall you from filing? B/C my guess is, that's what he'll say.




M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change