A slightly different topic, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me some guidance on jealousy...
As part of my GAL-ing I've joined some local groups and am going to meet new people. Last Saturday I went to one and I was REALLY nervous and at first sure I was going to hate it but ended up having an amazing time (I even went into a Starbucks afterwards and the guy working there said to me "wow, you look so HAPPY, what made you so happy today?", which shocked me because I realised it was one of the first times I'd been happy at all since BD). Anyway, I met this guy there, who was being really friendly and chatting to me a lot (just to be clear, I wasn't attracted to him and frankly I wasn't sure if he was gay but we had a nice talk). Afterwards, I mentioned the conversation I had with this guy in passing to H when he asked about my day. Not intending to make him jealous, but he did seem it. (Which was weird. Because I've never seen H jealous. Not once! Even when we met up with a former ex of mine for lunch once, who even remarked how un-jealous H is.) I have to admit I did get a bit of a kick out of seeing him look a bit jealous... Should I hold off mentioning other guys in the future or is it ok to make him a bit jealous? Or does it matter more what my intention is (trying to make him jealous vs. just mentioning and not caring if he is).
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
