Thanks susana. It's probably the smart choice to wait with a 50/50 decision until it gets a little clearer. In general what I do in this case is pray. Usually I get an answer like that although I'm not even very religious. It helps me to focus on love, non selfish love...not only for my W, but for myself. That in balance usually provides me with an answer.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15