Thanks susana.
It's probably the smart choice to wait with a 50/50 decision until it gets a little clearer. In general what I do in this case is pray. Usually I get an answer like that although I'm not even very religious. It helps me to focus on love, non selfish love...not only for my W, but for myself. That in balance usually provides me with an answer.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15