I am Sad36 a 36yo man and loving father/husband, my wife is 33 we have been together 13years and married 11. We have a D13 and a D10 & S10 (twins).Just under two weeks ago my wife slept with another man. While we have had a liberal relationship this broke our rules and really rocked me. Since then while I tried to cope she then went off and spent 24hrs with him last Saturday. Then on Monday morning she said I needed a few days away. On Wednesday we spoke I was told we shouldn't live together. I'm currently at my sisters house scheduled for therapy and on anti-anxiety medication. However today I was reading about MLC and realised every single thing matched, finally I realised I wasn't going insane! We did used to have fun, I am not solely to blame, or restricting her!
So I then came across this forum and thought it looked a nice place! DB ordered and arrives tomorrow.
Mean time we are meant to tell the kids Saturday... I am seeing her tomorrow as I was meant to stay at home and have the kids Saturday, she claims to go to a freinds house bug I know it's to meet this guy. I have decided though that I am doing what makes me happy and No1 on that list is my kids. So I am moving back in. I am going to make up a bed downstairs but I am sleeping in that house. I then plan to follow the 37 rules.
My first question would be should I push for our bedroom (alone obviously) or should I offer to camp out?
T:13 yrs M:11 Me: 36 Her: 33 Living apart Her having affair She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015 3 kids D13 S10 D10 D not mentioned yet
