i've been living based on fear for years now. Fear that if i say something or do something wrong she'll leave and you are right, for just those reasons (my lack of action due to fear) she wants to leave.
Why are you so afraid of being left? Were you abandoned when you were a child?
This is a horrible way to live life. It has ruined your MR and made you emotionally dependent on your W. Women are not attracted to men who are not strong enough to stand on their own two feet.
Have you ever had therapy for your issues?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
