And about this talk with stbx. Can I just skip that?
Ask the attorney how to handle this.
I freaked out like this too, last year. Seeing the attorney -- even before I was ready to do anything -- helped ENORMOUSLY. You'll feel better tomorrow night, I guarantee it.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15