Very good point, Karma. Right now I feel independent and strong, but I'm sure it would hurt if I found out she was seeing someone again right now. You and uR make a great case for ceasing the cuddling and minor physical contact. I'll go back to her being a friendly neighbor, with whom I definitely would not cuddle.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23