Gogofo - LRT letter - planning a new beginning

[gogofo]

I agree with the fact that actions are the only thing that works. My DB Coach suggested the LRT letter as a hail Mary pass that may make the WAS change their mind about filing for D. She said in one situation the WAW read the letter from her husband and felt for the first time there was hope because the H took ownership of his actions.

I do not think the letter would work in my situation or with my W. I think she would see it as manipulation.

Thanks for the advice of just needing to relax, I really do need to relax and stop with the expectations.

There was a study about expectations that was address on CBS Sunday Morning last weekend. The gist of it was that researchers found that people with low expectations are happier. Lower expectations make it more likely that an outcome will exceed those expectations and have a positive impact on happiness. Pretty good food for thought.