Jefe, I need to respond to you but haven't the time right now to do so properly.

A good head shaking..... The ex-OW is pregnant (nope not H's) she moved on rather quickly!! He has to see her once a month at district meetings and at January's she announced she was pregnant and is sporting a small bump. There was no meeting in December and H said she didn't look pregnant for November's.... He doesn't know when she is due.

I feel sorry for her older boys who have men in/out of their lives quickly.....

I asked H how he felt about this and he said he didn't care, he said seeing her didn't bring up any feelings.



25yrs something you said about love not being wrapped the way I want it REALLY got me thinking.... I need to blog about this later.

Maybe OW will sell her house and move somewhere else with baby daddy (whoever he is) and she won't live down the street from me anymore! I could only hope!

I think what bothers me is that H thought of her as a good mother but said I was not (which he has since said isn't true, he was just angry at me and compliments me to everyone all the time) BUT the hurt over that being said is something I just can't get past.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction