Hi OD

mmm see now originally my fb was plain broken then when I started GALing I put a whole new pic etc up about a month in it all got too much and I put the account on temporary hold and left it a couple of weeks this was because I thought I'd do something or post something that would land me in trouble.

Really the question is do you want to know what your w is posting? My w and I are (at least today...who knows by tomorrow) friends on fb and Ive no intention of changing that but mostly she's posting stuff about her day with our s or plans with friends. Sometimes its useful sometimes its hurtful. Over christmas she posted tree pics with s which hurt but I realised I did exactly the same albeit not in our old place with the decorations we hung together for over a decade. She's posted how much she misses s when Ive had him for one night after he's been there a week and so on.

So really, do you want to know? I can tell you I know bits that I didnt ask to know and that w hasnt told me (I did not snoop) and its causing me a lot of trouble right now.

If you do (and I defer to vets if this is slipping into pursuing) then keep it simple and lose the 180 description "The other day I blocked you on Facebook, I'm sorry about that and would be very happy to reconnect with you".

I'm not the best at messaging and have felt the wrath of the 2x4 STFU plank so you may want to wait what others say.

Keep going mate.

Last edited by edz; 01/29/15 04:43 PM.

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015