I had my ring on continually for over 13 years I took it off in December just before Christmas (w took hers off back in august - she wasnt religous about wearing it anyway). In my case it was because I hit a crisis point in myself, I couldnt quite get into detatching and after some issues that happened at the time (all in my threads if you want to know) I took it off (took some doing). To this day feels odd and still have muscle memory to tap it on the car gearstick or feel it with my thumb.
But, it was a catalyst for me being able to commit more to loving detatchment which Im at least better at now if still relapsing at times.
So really, ask yourself why? If it brings you comfort to keep on keep it on, you are married you care and you want to stand for your marriage. If you think it will be a symbol of you detaching (but not giving up) then take it off. Just dont do it (not saying you would) as a rebuttle or counter attack. Only make your decision based on what it means to you if you keep it on vs what it means if you take it off.
Right now my sitch is at a crossroads and Im not sure where it goes next (big reasons I cant go into on the forum) but if we did reconcile w would put mine back on or it will stay off.
Hope that helps a little, really its something you need to think about and decide for what it means to you and which is the more comforting direction for you. There may be an external effect on your w but dont decide based on that or at least not that alone.
Keep going mate you will be better regardless of outcome
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
