Thanks Jim, as ive said i wouldnt hurt someone else by jumping in too early - unless it was a romcom "omg this is the real soul mate how did this happen" kind of moment and no, thats not going to happen in reality.
Just FYI I think you're doing very well indeed, you've had a lot harder time of it than me in a lot of ways how you guys deal/dealt with in house sep is something im in awe of it would have killed me much as I was ripped apart by my sitch.
If I hear anything on allowable contact I'll shout.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015