Just as an FYI guys I hit the notify button on my own post and wrote a query to the mods on how / if contact outside the forum is possible. I'll let you know if I hear anything smile thanks guys and mods.

M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015