Yes, he calls every night, except for like either Friday or Saturday when he goes drinking, or so I assume. Today is a bad day, I feel so emotionally drained from dealing with this and long work hours just get me thinking about it. If I get through today without asking him when he intends in filing it will really be a miracle. I'm tired of having been plan b for 7 years to the Marine Corps and now to whatever this is. If it weren't for my daughter I think I'd be done.
I'm no expert here (I'm a newbie too) but I think if you're feeling like that, maybe you should limit contact with him- just hand the phone straight to your daughter. That way you limit the potential time in which you could make a comment you may later regret.
I know it's really hard, and emotionally draining. I think that's why people on these boards talk about GAL ("get a life") so much. Getting out will give you more energy and make you focus more on yourself.
What are you doing to GAL?
And what are some changes you want to make in yourself? Are you working on you?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
