RD Moving on 3

[Ahoy]

Hi rd, If you have a good reason to move (for work, family, etc.) and it's only an extra 40 minutes away, then sure. But if you want to move just to avoid OM, then you are giving him too much of your mental energy. He is not worth it. You eventually won't care about him anyway.

I will be moving very far away from my H, and we are trying to work out the parenting plan at the moment. But my move is not to avoid him or punish him. I have to move to keep my job and financial independence and for family support (esp. for my medical condition).

Just make sure if you do decide to move that you do so for the right reasons for you. As for the country house, there's no reason you couldn't go ahead and sell that so you'll have some options when you're ready.