Thanks!
Sry I slide away from focusing on myself, but this forum is kind of the place where I can let my mind wander a bit. It's the catalyst so I get it out of my head and then I cN focus better on the real life...

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15