I feel like I shouldn't really complain. My WAH (STBX?) is generally "nice" to me, (or at the very least, he's generally neutral, and sometimes nice), he generally holds up his end of the parenting arrangement and tries his best to be a great dad, he hasn't pushed me on any financial stuff.
I know a lot of you guys have it so much worse. I know I am fortunate.
And, in some ways, it makes it even more incomprehensible. The fact that we can get along and be nice and flexible and caring... in some ways makes it harder.
I want to call him out on that. Does he realize that our friends-- the ones who we thought had such a great friendships and loving marriage-- sometimes don't sleep in the same bed and are really struggling with their R? But they would never ever consider D. Does he even realize what his own friends struggle with and work through?
I don't want to put all this energy into figuring out parenting schedule logistics. I don't want to be his adversary, but this friendliness also feels awful. Does that make any sense? Cuz this whole situation makes no f'ing sense to me.
Don't mind me. It's just the hormones. Back to our regularly scheduled detachment and rational thinking in a few days.
