Lorelai, I haven't read all of your story, but I do have a question to ask of you based on a post above. Why are you letting him control you in this way? It sounds like anger has been a problem in the past. If you want to be nice as a 180, then be nice. It doesn't matter whether he challenges it or not or thinks it's manipulation or not. YOU decide how YOU want to change. That change is for YOU to make for the rest of YOUR life regardless of the outcome of your M.
M: 8.5 T:10 Me:37 W:34 S:6
Retrouvaille and W moves back- 7/31/15 Piecing - 7/4/15 to present
