Had a bit of an R talk tonight. Earlier I texted her asking if she wanted to watch the final season of a show with me. She had previously asked me to watch football, go to the gym, etc, so I didn't think it was out of bounds. She responded "um maybe". So I asked her in person tonight what she meant, if she maybe didn't want to watch the show or maybe didn't want to watch it with me. She said neither, just that she didn't want to send mixed signals. I said that's fine, I was just asking on the grounds of watching TV and wasn't interpreting anything. I told her that if she wanted to reconcile, I would expect a much more definite signal than accepting a TV invite (I said that light-heartedly). I also conveyed that I was still deciding what I want, anyway.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23