So today came a major change in my life in the near future. I received Orders to move to Oklahoma and work. I pondered not letting her know that i got them but my report date is august 10. I sent her the orders so that she is aware that on this date i will be leaving. i have not said with or without her. i just said. I received my orders here are a copy i just wanted you to know. Did i do the wrong thing? or should i ask her to talk so we can discuss them. any input would be greatly appreciated. ASAP this is a tough one
My second question is do i leave this place without filing for D if it comes to that. i have heard how hard it is to actually complete once you are in different states. im at a total loss on this one. as of yet she has not even mention divorce, she actually said she doesnt want to leave me she just needs to figure out what is going on inside herself. I.E. be with OM. this has really stressed me out right now, but i also see this as a guiding light. if things are not headed in the right direction maybe a change like this is needed i do not know. Not only am i broken at this moment but i am lost as well. thank you
