S, glad you spoke with someone. Nothing wrong with going to see a few of them. You will learn something from each one.
That sounds good that they want to be solution based. But what if your h changes how he said he wanted to act? Will they be a strong team for you if you were to choose them.
Please do not tell your h you have sought legal advice. I know that might seem dishonest to you, but, it is crucial at this time. You are just fact gathering right now.
You know, I dont have a lot of people in my life either. For several reasons. But you only need one or two, S, and you have that.
