Hi Edz, sounds like you are doing pretty well with 'the thing' - processing and working through it. You said that people may know what has happened from your posts - well, I'm in the 'haven't got a clue' group...and fully understand/respect if there are things that you don't feel you want to post on the forum.

Hope your bugs are departing, and that you'll soon be back to your usual sunny self. Shame about guitar. So, of course you won't be giving up on this midweek GAL plan....what's next on your list my friend?

At the moment, I'm trying to introduce a new activity a month....not all continue, but I'm trying to get one a month started. We S in July (7 months) and so far I have book club, infidelity group (GAL?) calligraphy group, volunteering, tai chi, yoga, aqua aerobics...so I'm on track. Pink has inspired me to think about latin american dancing (which I've never done.) I'm asking myself if 2015 is the year I learn to dance to Conga Del Fuego.....this may be my February GaL plan.

Should I lay down the gaunlet for a new GAL activity for you each month?? ;-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus