Ahhhh ok I was not understanding. Now I see. Bring it up only and only if she brings something up and lies about it. I will follow that plan. I need to get the book and read it. Guess I need to change my amazon p/w so she will not know what I am reading. Thanks for everything. Any time she sends me a email I am polite but short sweet and to the point. Nothing emo or personal. Just validation, appreciation for an action and being polite and too the point.