Be mindful that until your W lies to your face - on her own accord, without you trying to prompt it - your job is to look nice, smell nice, have mysterious places to be with mysterious people to meet. Be positive and upbeat and NEIGHBORLY-friendly to W. But don't get into chit-chat with her. Don't stand around and offer to help her. Don't look like a lost puppy-dog or a wet noodle. Be MOVING, at all times.
If SHE mentions where she's been staying - or something of that nature - THEN pull out "strength-and-honor" broken ... who, to W, is not gonna look so "broken" all a sudden.
Trust the process.
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
