Just a thought...sometimes we can "over think" things....if H agrees to go out...try to just have fun and stop talking about "things"....think about it. Were you first days...months filled with heart heavy conversation...? Be that person/those people for an evening. Act "as-if" you are out with someone you enjoy and are excited to be with for the evening. Just enjoy yourselves if you go out. My 2 cents....
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
