Wow. You do have a lot of FEARS and self created/inflicted obstacles in your life. Sense any patterns?
Do you see now, that giving power to our fears of something, can actually create the very conditions that lead to the event we fear, then happening?
By way of analogy, I've seen several spouses here who admit they were controlling and jealous and insecure. They admitted that they over reacted to things and got more controlling when their spouses balked.
Eventually, these fear laden spouses, pushed their loved ones into the arms of another.
So these people effectively caused the very event they feared. Not to mention the self fulfilling prophecies that happen too.
Wow 25, just wanted to say this was absolutely brilliant (as were your comments on making hard choices and how the hard one's usually the right one when stuck). It really resonated with me (I have a lot of fears too) and I've copied it into a 'words of wisdom' doc I'm keeping with some of the best thoughts I've picked up here. Thank you for sharing!
Also - "fury marches" made me laugh. I have done many of those walks, usually while blasting music, but I haven't called them that - but I think I will now!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
