Well, I think I blew it last night. He called 2xs to FaceTime with us but I missed the call and called him approx 16 mins later. His reception was rather cold. Our daughter was sleeping anyhow so he wouldn't be able to talk to her. We spoke for a while, a bit over an hour, and he lightened up a bit. I think I blew it though since i made a comment about an acquiantance of his not being the best person to go to for advice since the guy is an alcoholic. I realize this was a mistake. He became almost confrontational after that. I didn't get pulled into an argument. His parents argued non stop when he was a kid and it's almost like he craves confrontation. He also seemed slightly annoyed that I'm getting out and im upbeat and easy going. I feel exhausted from his moodiness. Maybe I won't talk to him tonight and I'll just let my daughter chat with him. He always has a smile for her.
Hi Loli, don't worry, we all have better and worse days, and days where we backslide. Now that you know you shouldn't have said his friend wasn't a good person to go to for advice, what are you going to do next time? It's really important not to criticise. But don't worry, we all backslide sometimes - just take this as a lesson for next time. What happened yesterday, did he call?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
