I am trying to figure out what my 180 should be. One of H complaints is that I am too independent and that I do not need him for anything. So one of the rules is never to say I need you. But I feel like he wants to hear that. What should I do?
Hi June, I don't think that would be in keeping with DB rules, that would be seen as 'pursuing' which you shouldn't be doing any of right now. You need to show H you will be fine, with or without him, either way, and that you are moving on with your life.
I'm pretty stumped as to what a good 180 would be though, without seeming needy or pursuing - any thoughts from vets around here?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
