I did get a hearty f@#$ you last night when she asked if my parent's knew we were divorcing. Not even thinking I said "yeah, I told them that you want a divorce." I don't understand her instant anger about this.
If she filed and knows that I don't want a D, why would the words I used make her instantly angry? Is it typical a WAW that thinks that the D is what both want?
What is typical is that she wants others to believe you both want a D. In her opinion, you painted her as the bad guy to your parents. (Which she is, but that's the thinking of a WAW.)
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Was I wrong with my word choice?
No, you were truthful.
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Does she not want to accept responsibility for the D, even though she filed?
Not really.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
