They haven't scheduled the earth for demolition have they?
I think I know where your coming from edz on a bunch if stuff and if its what I'm thinking then I can see why that's a deal breaker. At the same time whether it is us up to you. I hate to sound harsh though if she doesn't want to reconcile it doesn't actually matter except for if it impacts on your ability to be friends/coparents (and thats the more pressing concern/decision for you.)
Ill post more in a bit. Gotta go
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress