Give it some time, Card. Your sitch is interesting I think - as the cat is out of the bag and rather than proving immediately catastrophic you've both gone on to acknowledge that you both are hurting and maintained some contact through that. Keep working on you and get yourself back to PMA so you can keep riding the wave.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014