Starsky, I find your comments to Jefe very interesting.
If you reread Jefe's blogs I think you would agree Jefe has become extremely empathic toward his wife. And become very adept at gauging her emotions.
In fact, if you reread some of his posts you will see how he has learned to correctly discern her emotional state before she engaged in a behavior pattern that was destructive to the marriage. And how Jefe has learned proactive techniques to respond to his wife when her emotional temperature rises.
I agree that no one should mind read but I think you would agree that a successful relationship requires the ability to recognize your partners mood and respond accordingly.
You don't you think Jefe is doing an excellent job of this?
