Feeling lost

[jessm15]

He is both of those things. He hasn't always been that way, it's only over the past couple of years that he seems to have changed. Over the past 6 months he's become very selfish. He actually said to the counsellor that he resented me because he couldn't just pack a bag and go off travelling and "rock out" whenever he wanted. Yes, he actually said "rock out" not sure if I'm dealing with a 27 year old father ofr two or an 18 year old. He seems to just want to walk away from all his responsibilities and go out drinking with his buddies. He's also start smoking again, which we can't afford.

I have spoken to his mother and she thinks he's being foolish but she doesn't want to get involved.