11. Do not say "I Love You" (It is being "pushy" and trying to make your spouse say it back to you......he/she will despise you for it.)
15. When at home with your spouse, (if you usually start the conversation---then don't, wait for him/her) then, be rather scarce or with your words, but don't sound rude or too short like you are mad. If your spouse asks what's wrong....just say "nothing" and have a pleasant expression on your face. Keep it short and simple. Don't get into an argument! Stay polite and don’ t act like you are pouting. Use poise and class. This does not mean to act like you aren’t speaking, but don’t be overly talkative.
35. Do not send several TM's or emails throughout the day unless absolutely necessary
this is where i need guidance MrBond, how do i implement these?
e.g i she wanted me to say i love her (which i do) but now im not supposed to say it.
she said we dont have anything to say anymore but at the same time im supposed to "keep it short and simple and not be overly talkative" etc
