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I thought about that, Elsa. Or that he found this website and is webstalking my posts. Crazy?
I highly doubt he's found this website or your username. You know him way better than me, but he doesn't sound like the kind of guy that could calmly sit on that kind of secret. He probably would have blown up on you by now after reading something you wrote.

I'm so sorry you found that. That is disgusting. Just know that his behavior now or in the past does not define who you are. Don't dwell on the "how could I marry a guy like this" thought. HIS sh**, not yours! It does have to be so hard to learn things like that about someone you loved for the better part of 2 decades, even with the extended S and what you learned about the escorts last year.

You're right, you need uR! I'll throw out a bat signal for you on my thread, although I'm sure she'll find yours by the time she finds mine. But you're getting lots of great words from everyone here, too.


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23