Hey Edz - I bet you and Jim could figure out a way to connect. Maybe both post on another forum where you can exchange contact info. A purposefully created Skype name perhaps? Sounds like you would like to talk this through with someone but it's totally understandable (and respectable) that you don't want to do it here.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014