I can only suggest that the vets will kick in:

I am uncertain that you are clear enough in your objectives on this. It feels muddled and reactive. A text that you need to have some paperwork sent to him and where would he like it sent. This would be my choice.

I am also concerned that this could go very badly wrong for you. If I were H then this might feel like controlling behaviour. Mza has good analysis on this.

Be clear and factual H , I am arranging to have an agreement drafted and delivered to you in the next x days. Where would you like to have these documents delivered? Shall I use your work address or some other?

You could do this by email or text or let your L do it. My recommendation is to leave this, I feel delivering this news in person might seem vengeful or wanting to view H reaction.
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Last edited by Vanilla; 01/27/15 10:27 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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