Hi Pink - Just checking in to see how you are doing my friend. All quiet here with me and I'm just trundling along.

The separation arrangements over there sound very different to here, where everything is very much on a voluntary basis - but an agreement may be put forward as agreed arrangements in the event a couple decides to D. Sounds like the process there is more formalised.

It's good that you have some time to prepare, and to settle yourself whilst your H is busy/away. Has he tried to get in touch again recently?

It sounds from your recent posts that you are doing pretty well, despite the circumstances. Whilst I can hear your distress, I also hear feisty Pink moving forwards and looking after herself and her boys.

You have inspired me actually. I keep listening to the Conga Del Fuego. It has become my favourite 'separation' music. And I now think it might be nice to learn some latin american dancing...I'm going to look into it as a GAL plan.

Anyway, just checking in with you, and sending my best wishes, Toots x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus