well, Calibri, I can't advise you because I'm in the same predicament...

How do I talk to this man?

I like the idea that you're preparing to be dignified and respectful. Remember to validate but don't feel the need to explain yourself excessively.

Beyond that, I'm following this thread because I need similar advice.

Hang in there. We're jumping together, Calibri.

M: 37 H: 36
M: 13 T: 18
D: 7
Bomb: 6/30/14
Separation: 8/11/14

Be strong enough to let go and wise enough to wait for what you deserve.