I agree/w Georgia, actions speak far louder than words. He has a lot of work ahead of him to "win" you back. He needs to be transparent and do the necessary work to find out why he has felt the way he has for some time. You can't help him...he's got to find out the reason for his feelings before he can go any further in his proclamations of wanting to work things out w/you.
Keep your expectations at zero and I would still continue on w/my plans to move in April. If he truly wants to reconcile, he will find away to earn your trust and be there for you during this move. After all, the school year ends in June, which is two months after your move and he may need to think about moving closer to you, if he is still having clarity and wants to reconcile.
Time will tell whether the breakup w/the ow is done or if he went into panic mode because you advised the landlord that you are moving and moving forward w/your life. Sometimes, when the rug is pulled out from under them, they panic and say things to woo you back into the drama. Continue as you have been and no more relationship talks for a while. He has a lot of work to do and his focus has to be on himself and healing. You will need to keep your focus on you and your children for now.
