The common signs of an affair

[susana4]

Thanks everyone for their input, I think it's really useful to have a list like this! Interesting point on the porn/romance novels, Cadet, so are you saying that's the case in every situation? Why do you think that happens? Just because in order to walk away, they need a fantasy of something 'better' to be pulled towards?

I don't want to get this thread too far off topic, but starsky, what about in cases where you don't have a car? (I don't want to go down that road anyway, I think it would make *me* feel guilty and would be too hard to listen to, but I am curious)